Forgive and Forget

                People probably know how to forgive someone who makes them feel that they are different in their world, human being that can make all the bad things to us just to let us down and just to see our tears falling from our eyes. But, being one of the people who will just ignore that kind of human beings is just one way of showing that you are strong enough to make your life goes on even though there are many people who let you down.

                Sophomore years, I considered as one of the memorable things that happened in my life. Part of growing up as an individual is experiencing different kind of problems. Problems will be so easy for us to handle if we in our self have the attitude that every problem has a solution and GOD will never let us down.

                Students of II-Oxygen were all settled down in their own seat because one of our classmate will talked about something in front of our class. While she was saying something there was something happened that is really somewhat normal. One of my classmates is giving something to my classmate and suddenly I just like kiss my classmates arm and made the three of us laughed but we immediately stopped it because someone is talking in front. Then suddenly my classmate that is talking told me to stop flirting with my classmates and I should stop being a slut. My feelings were really hurt. I cried a lot because I felt that I was judge by my classmate. Is talking with boys and laughing with them is really called flirting? I hope she first asked what happened before saying that kind of words. She is saying sorry to me at that time. In my part, forgiving someone is not a big deal but the fact the she said that hurtful words to me is somewhat that is not easy to forget.

                Forgiving someone who you feel that is really sincere to say sorry is somewhat helpful, it may lessen the anger you feels because in some way you can see that she is really feels sorry. Though, forgiving is really not that easy if you are really hurt in the things that she did. As the day passed, I learned to forget what have happened because I can’t do anything to undo it because it happened already and I don’t have the power to undo the past. Forgetting that experience really helps me to forgive her but it really takes time for me to recover and to full forget what have happened.

"I have learned that sometimes "sorry" is not enough. Sometimes you actually have to change."